Have you ever felt like life dropped you deep into a forest without a map, a compass, or even a decent pair of hiking boots? One moment, the path ahead feels clear and predictable… and the next, you’re tangled in the vines of “what-ifs,” “should-haves,” and “I-can’t-believes.” It can be overwhelming! The forest of life sometimes feels shadowy and endless, but here’s a little secret: it isn’t just made of darkness and unknowns. Hidden between the trees is magic, that is if you’re willing to slow down and notice it. In fact, getting “lost” in the forest of life might just be the very thing that helps you find yourself.
Notice the Little Things
In the middle of life’s tangles, it’s easy to obsess over the giant trees blocking our path, those big fears, the loud doubts, the “what if I fail?” and all of the other worries. But fairies? Fairies live in the details. They see the shimmer on a dewdrop, the glow of a firefly, the perfect curl of a fern.
Your self-esteem grows the same way, by spotting and celebrating the small wins.
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Got out of bed when you didn’t feel like it? That’s resilience.
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Sent that email you’ve been avoiding? That’s bravery!
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Choosing water before coffee (even just once)? That, my friend, is self-care.
The more you notice the tiny blossoms along your path, the more beauty you’ll see. Remember: what you focus on grows.
Become the Fairy You Want to Meet
Fairies don’t wait for permission to sparkle; they just do. They wear their wings proudly, even if someone else thinks they’re “too much.”
You get to decide how you move through the forest.
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Speak kindly to yourself, especially when you’re still figuring things out.
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Wear what feels enchanting, even if that’s fuzzy socks and a messy bun.
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Leave tiny pockets of joy in your wake, a kind word, a painted rock, a smile at the grocery store.
Being “the fairy” means embracing your light unapologetically and sprinkling it everywhere, not just when things are going well.
Create Fairy Gardens Everywhere You Go
In the real world, a “fairy garden” isn’t just moss and mushrooms; it’s any space where kindness and beauty can grow.
Your fairy garden could be:
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A community bench where you leave a little painted stone with a kind message.
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A cozy corner in your home filled with plants, candles, and books that inspire you.
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The online space where you hype up your friends and strangers alike, (cough, cough, Pinkicing Self Esteem Workshops on Facebook)!
You don’t have to fix the whole forest. Your magic is enough to light up your little corner and when you do so, others will be inspired to plant their own magical gardens.
Trust the Path (Even When It Twists)
Forests are rarely straight paths. There will be fallen logs to climb over, sudden rainstorms to wait out, and maybe even a grumpy troll or two. That doesn’t mean you’re truly lost, it simply just means that you’re taking the scenic route.
When the path twists:
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Pause. Breathe. Look for the next small step, not the entire journey ahead.
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Remember that detours often lead to secret clearings and hidden waterfalls.
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Trust that even the dark parts of the forest hold lessons and beauty you can’t see yet.
The Magic of Mirrors in the Forest
Sometimes the hardest thing isn’t the path, it’s the reflection you see when you stumble upon a pool of still water. If you’ve been meeting yourself with criticism instead of compassion, it’s time to soften your gaze. A fairy doesn’t scold the flower for not blooming fast enough; she simply tends to it, knowing it will bloom in its own time and just like the flower, you deserve that same tenderness, love and care.
Margical Reminder:
You are both the explorer and the fairy in your own story. The forest is yours to wander, wonder, and weave into something beautiful. When you feel stuck, remember that even the tiniest fairy wings can lift you over the tallest weeds. So next time you feel lost, take some time to pause and intentionally listen. You might just hear the faint tinkling of fairy bells calling you deeper into your own magical self.
Your Personal Fairy Garden Self-Esteem Challenge
Because building confidence is even more fun with a little magic!
For the next 7 magical days, you’re magically going to become a Fairy in your own garden, planting kindness, finding beauty, and sprinkling self-love everywhere you go.
Day 1 – Fairy Forage
Go for a short walk (outside or even around your home) and notice three tiny beautiful things you would normally miss. Bonus: take a photo and make a little “fairy magic” album.
Day 2 – Leave Fairy Dust
Leave a kind surprise somewhere for a stranger, a painted rock, a sticky note with a compliment, or a little flower in a jar.
Remember that you never know how much a tiny act of kindness can change someone’s day.
Day 3 – Dress in Your Fairy Armour
Wear something that makes you feel enchanting! Perhaps a favourite outfit, sparkly jewelry, a bright scarf, or your comfiest cozy footwear. Remember that confidence is an energy, not a dress size!
Day 4 – Build a Fairy Garden (Your Way)
Create a small space that feels magical. It could be a potted plant, a corner of your desk with a candle, or a shelf of things that inspire you. Make this space a sanctuary that reflects you.
Day 5 – Speak the Magic Spell
Look in the mirror and say three affirmations that lift you up.
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“I am worthy of my own love.”
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“I radiate kindness and light.”
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“I am growing beautifully, just as I am.”
Day 6 – Invite Someone into the Garden
Send a kind message, voice note, or small gift to a friend or family member to remind them of their magic. Lifting others lifts you, too!
Day 7 – Map Out the Garden Path You’ve Walked
Reflect on your fairy garden challenge! Write down all of the magical moments, the little wins, and how you felt showing up as your own Fairy in your own garden. This is your proof: you are blooming.
Your Invitation:
Share your Fairy Garden challenge moments with the hashtag #PinkicingFairyMagic on Facebook so that our little community can see your sparkle.
Cheers,
Coach Jo <3
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